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Love.
Saturday, October 22, 2011 || 2:06 AM
Love, a very special feeling that most people misinterpreted it.
Well well, today I'm just showing my thoughts about love today, not forcing people to have the same views as mine.
I had this feeling to write about this it's because this guy friend of mine told me he'll never listen to his girlfriend or get controlled by her because he feels that if he did that, he'll be like a dog. & the first thing I said was
'Because you never loved before.'
& he got so agitated.
All the guys are like that, loving their pride. They don't want to 'get controlled' by their girlfriends because of pride, because other guys (99% I guess?) out there will be laughing at them, thinking that,
'Oh, he just can't live without this girl, useless, disgrace of all men.' If the guy really loved before, I'm sure he'll know the power of love is greater than pride.
I've gone through so far with my boy, a lot of ups and downs, and finally settled down. If you've read my blog since 3years ago, you should know what kinda guy he was.
Now, he's listening to me, quitted smoking, whenever I ask him to carry my bag, he did, cooked for me, washed dishes after I've eaten, clean my house with me, did not retaliate even when I hit/scold him in front of his friends, care for me more when I'm letting out my anger, helped me to massage my tummy when I'm having cramps, did what I told him to help me do most of the times and many more that you can't think of a guy will do to a girl.
So what does this means? He's a dog?
Well, guys, you're so wrong, because if you love your girl, you'll respect her too, & this is the kind of guy I would say all girls want. Even you're unhappy, if you really love her, you'll make her happy no matter what.
& my friend told me he want his freedom, his girlfriend should give him freedom.
Sorry, you never loved before.
Yes, it's true to have freedom, but if you really love your girl, you'll love whatever she does to you, even if she 'controls' you.
Next time, if both of you are married, how? Divorce in a few days? Because till then you won't have freedom anymore? Because you must face her and tell her everything, sleep with her every night?
I told my boy about my friend, and he himself told me,
'He really never loved before.'
Because in my boy's heart, love has already overpowered his pride. I wonder how many out there have this feeling?
Just saw a quote just now,
'If you love two person at the same time, choose the second person because if you really loved the first one, you won't fall for the second one.' I think it's
totally wrong, sorry for those who liked this quote, seriously no offence, like I said, I'm just sharing my thoughts.
If you really loved someone, you won't even love two persons at the same time, except that your feelings for one of them is just purely admire but you treated it as love. Never always choose the second one, because the second one might be the one you admire and you just thought that it was love when you got so interested in him, you'll regret if you got yourself wrong. Search your soul, ask yourself whether which is the one you really love. As for me, I'll always ask myself, my boy and I already had 3years of relationship, doesn't it prove enough? After we gone through so much, & we're still together, doesn't it prove further?
The truth is, my boyfriend really makes me feel like his love for me is greater than my love for him, that makes me love him so much. & never once any guy other than him made me felt this way. Although he's not better than most of the guys out there, I just love the way he is.
Think about it,
especially guys.
